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HEAD, HEART, CROTCH
CONNECTIONS

How Not To Fail in Search of the Perfect Union

Discover the battle-tested formula to improve your intimate relationships. Learn to overcome common conflicts, increase understanding and build happy and healthy relationships.

about the book!

HEAD, HEART, CROTCH
CONNECTIONS

Have you been searching for your better half? Or want to improve the relationship you’re already in?

Head, Heart, Crotch Connections: How Not To Fail in Search of Your Perfect Union is the guide you’ve been waiting for to safeguard your intimate relationships by better understanding how they work.

How Not To Fail in Search of the Perfect Union

Discover the battle-tested formula to improve your intimate relationships. Learn to overcome common conflicts, increase understanding and build happy and healthy relationships.

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What’s Inculded

 What you'll find inside the book

How to utilize the right words to explain your inner thoughts, emotions, and sexual feelings to create better attachments and experiences with others.

Everything you need to know about relational psychology to improve your understanding of human functioning (aspects of the mind, body, and spirit).

An easy formula to identify the type of intimate connection you have in your relationship, the level of attachment it sustains, and how to overcome difficulties to create a more perfect union.

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about the author

Hi, I’m Rene vazquez

My name is Dr. René G. Vázquez del Valle, and I am a therapist in private practice.

I received my MSW at Columbia University and my Doctorate at the CUNY Graduate School. While working for the NYS Office of Mental Health, South Beach Psychiatric Center, I also taught at Long Island University and was a guest speaker at both the NYU School of Medicine, Dept. of Psychiatry and CUNY Law School. I evaluated grant proposals for HIV programs by the Ryan White Foundation.

In my free time, I enjoy landscape design, swimming, film festivals and international travel. Currently residing in Jackson Heights, Queens, NY and East Hampton, NY,I work as a private practice therapist in several mental health clinics throughout New York.

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REVIEWS

WHAT OUR READERS ARE SAYING

5.0 out of 5 stars

Dr. Vazquez del Valle has managed to 
dissect the three basic aspects of relationships
the intellectual, emotional and sexual
which he calls Head, Heart and Crotch,
into clearly defined elements with precise clarity.
 
He does this in a way that lay people can not only
understand but be able to use the concepts in their 
evaluation of their own relationships.
 
This unique approach allows an individual to see
the area(s) that need to be worked on and provides
excellent guidance in so doing.
 
Joseph J. Faillace, Ph.D.
Executive Director
Queens County Neuropsychiatric Institute




Well-written and warmly presented,
HHCC provides a modern
and practical distillation of the age-old
Mind, Body, Spirit dynamic.

Dr. Vazquez lays out a process
that stimulates curiosity and invites
couples to enter unafraid into their
shared universe – a sometimes
 daunting but powerfully curative
 adventure.

Serving as a roadmap to assess,
identify and address potential
problem areas (weak connections),
the HHCC paradigm promotes growth 
by directly focusing on how our
Head (thoughts-values),
Heart (emotions–feelings)
 and Crotch (sexual intimacy)
 “Connections” may or
may not be in balance.

Additionally, a practical emphasis
on developing and improving
language skills necessary to
express thoughts and feelings
 assists couples on their journey
 toward a “more perfect union”.

Therapists will find this book
particularly useful as an introductory
strategy providing clients with a
conceptual framework to improve
 understanding and increase
 intimacy in their relationships.

Beautiful in it’s depth and triumphant
in it’s straight-forward simplicity,
HHCC can serve as a handbook
guiding newer couples or
assisting longer-standing couples
in a “tune-up” process.
In some instances couples may
want to read this together!

Wayne Santiago, M.A. Psychologist


Thank You so much for such
 an amazing book.
One of the BEST books I
 have read in a long time.
Definitely connected with
everything in this book.
The book is relatable inevery part
 from the root to the present.
 I want to thank you for HELPING
me with this book as it has
 opened my eyes even more.
Can't wait for the future
 and more books from you.
Dr Vazquez you are AMAZING.  
GOD continue to Bless
Always with morehelpful
knowledge, experience,
 understanding and healing.
Definitely buying book #2 whenever
you write the Next One!
Thank You for Healing me through
your book!

DEE

Devoured in one day!
Highly recommended for
those seeking a relationship
guide, ongoing exploration
of intimacy and successful
 language associated with
 healthy relationships..

Genise ACEVEDO

A totally enjoyable and informative read!
The author's sharing of real life
experiences together with his amazing
 insights, makes this book not just fun
to read, but also provides an opportunity
to understand the complexity of our
 relationships in an easily
understandable fashion. A fun,
easy and educational book,
I highly recommend it.
Easy and uncomplicated read.
I used this book as a tool in
 better understanding the
complexities of my behavior
 in maintaining my current relationship.
I recommend this book
wholeheartedly for both
a lay person and a professional
 in the field.
This book is well written
and clear enough to be able
 to utilize the key points and
references in my daily life.
I am excited to see what
comes next from this accomplished
author and professional!

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More About My Book

Have you been searching for your better half? Or want to improve the relationship you’re already in?

Divorce is continuously on the rise and relationships often fail. Why not be better prepared to explore intimacy the right way to create the perfect union?

Head, Heart, Crotch Connections focus us on the full picture of everything you need to know to overcome common conflicts in relationships to improve your connection with others—mind, body, and soul. The term crotch connection refers to where sexuality occurs physically, but genuine intimacy is created in the head and heart. Loving, romantic, healthy connections can occur when we bring together attachments that combine out thoughts, feelings and sexual wishes.

How would it feel to have all your needs met and meet the needs of others effortlessly? Relational needs such as:

  • Emotional
  • Sexual
  • Spiritual
  • Mental (being understood and understanding)

…are all explored in the pages of this book, giving you better relationship skills to keep your relationships healthy, happy, satisfied, and fun.

Don’t let your perfect union meet the demise of countless others. The secrets to a loving, perfect union are simple and easy to understand and they work when applied. Learn everything you need to know, today!

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